Sunday, July 26, 2009

Lessons learned

With another relationship come and gone, I feel a bit wiser and more prepared for future relationships. The lessons learned this time are simple, but important:

1) There's no such thing as a perfect relationship. You have to make it work and overcome concerns together. Willingness and effort are more important than trying to find someone perfect.

2) My current idea of an ideal relationship is as follows: Each person gives their best and tries to make the other person happy. In return, both find they have the best and that they are happy.

3) You have to be willing to give your heart and do whatever it takes to be together.

On top of that, I might add something like girls are confusing and don't make much sense, but that would probably just get me in trouble.

2 comments:

Cami Thornock said...

I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out.

You know, sometimes we girls don't even make sense to ourselves. Not that guys exactly make sense to us all the time ;)

I guess that's what makes relationships so thrilling. If we all understood each other perfectly, and people were predictable, life would be stale.

Am I making any sense?

MoonyMoMo said...

You'll find someone that fits. =)