The Key to My Heart

After considering some experiences and taking time to look inside myself, I better understand my sources of attraction and what kind of things would make me truly want to love someone. The key to my attraction and my heart (or at least a decent portion of it) is as follows:

My attractions

1) Femininity: Feminine girls are very attractive to me. Skirts, earrings, lipstick, or mascara/eyeliner can all easily score a girl extra points.

2) Boldness: It's nice to see a girl who stands out and who isn't afraid to communicate or express herself. It shows that she is confident and not bound by the false precepts of modern society. Yeah, that's hot. Also, it's nice to see a girl who is bold enough to show affection in public. I'm not saying that I enjoy watching people make out, but it is nice to see people who essentially say "I love you, and I don't care who knows."

3) Class: I'm a perfectionist of sorts, so I'm more likely to be interested in girls who are trying to be their best in every way. This often comes across as class in the attributes that can be easily seen. A girl with class holds herself to higher standards, and it's definitely obvious in the way she acts and present herself.


When I feel loved

If you are familiar with the idea of the 5 love languages, then mine would be physical touch and service. I really feel like a girl cares about me when she goes out of her way to do something special. Any kind of service says that she cares enough to give me her time and do something for me. Whether it's taking time to look her best for me, a surprise plate of cookies, or a specially planned night, I definitely appreciate it and it makes me feel closer. As far as physical touch, I love it when my back is scratched or my arms caressed. A kiss is nice, but an unexpected stolen kiss is even better. I guess it comes down to letting me know that she is really interested. In my relationships I try to make the people I date as happy as I can. I plan extravagant dates, always try to look my best, surprise her with gifts and flowers, try to shower her in sincere compliments, etc., etc. Really, I would do just about anything for someone I cared about and it's nice to know that all that effort is worth something and to see the girl respond with some effort of her own. Any relationship with unequally devoted participants is bound to fail. I like to put a lot into a relationship and expect a lot out.